SEX=LUST

I was reading an article in my MSN homepage from some so-called sex expert talking about sex myths for couples and it got me pissed off because it seems that women STILL don't foqueing get it. The point was labelled Sex=Intimacy. I would have laughed if i wasn't so goddamn angry. This misinformed "sexpert" had the audacity to continue the myth of sex(lovemaking) being the perfect time to be loving and intimate with your husband/partner and you must take the time and plan a wonderful afternoon or evening together to strengthen your relationship.

I don't understand, that in this day and age, women are still believing that SEX(lovemaking) is a perfect way to engage in intimacy and cuddling with their loved one. Maybe that's the way it is in a lesbian relationship but otherwise its all a load of horseshit. The sooner women wakeup and truly understand what makes a man tick, the better all hetero relationships will become. Sometimes i wonder if women have these mental blinders on just to irritate and piss us off and keep us off balance all the time. I can't see any other reason why they continue to ignore this simple basic fact.

Nothing in this world is so blatantly at odds with each other then men and women's ideas/rationalities on SEX(lovemaking). We call it having sex, they call it making love. Those two phrases are completely opposite of each other and the only time i can see that working is if you're married to a nymphomaniac. Oh joy, oh bliss. My wife and I for at least 12 years of our marriage, when we had sex we would orgasm simultaneously. That is a credit to my patience, technique and compromise, but it was my intervention that accomplished that. We just got the sex down to a fine art. If i had my way, i would blow my load then roll over until i was hard again then blow my load, roll over until i was hard and continue that until i fell asleep.

When women talk about sexuality today, it seems that they enjoy the foreplay and sex er lovemaking as a way to feel all cuddly and romantic and that leads to intimacy which hopefully brings the couple closer together. This intimacy strengthens the bond between them which makes lovemaking that much more enjoyable and more fulfilling!! That is really too bad that they feel that way because for most men, this couldn't be any further from the truth. The instant after orgasm is the only time when that cuddly, romantic feeling would ever cross their mind. If they don't roll over and fall asleep first. I'll bet the majority of men could have sex doggy-style while watching a porno movie then after, get ready for church. The two thoughts are separate and far apart so it can be put aside, forgotten or rationalized away very easily.

This sexual hunger/urge has been with men for over 100,000 years and because it's a sex urge, it will never change. Women HAVE to understand it, get over it and try to incorporate it into their lives for better or worse.